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During the year 2006, My journey took me to the Australian capital for a medical school interview. I figured to book accommodation after getting there, yet upon reaching the city, a major event was taking place and every single backpackers hostels and budget accommodation were completely sold out.

As a visitor from the city-state of Singapore, I thought perhaps I could bed down in the airport – but soon learned that airport, in contrast to Changi Airport, does not operate all night. Not knowing quite what to do and feeling increasingly desperate, I hopped on public transport and found myself drifting near the casino, thinking I could pass the evening in an establishment operating 24/7. Admittedly, this plan in the best shape for nailing a crucial interview the following day, yet, as a cash-strapped student, luxury accommodation was impossible.

The world needs more people who show such kindness.

I must have looked out of place as a female student saw me loitering in downtown and inquired whether I needed help. I shared my predicament and right away she suggested I could sleep on the ground at her university residence at ANU – which was perfect, as that’s where my interview was the following day. Generously, she also provided me some free dinner: a leftover stuffed baguettes she had from her evening job. I had access to a hot shower and a secure location to rest for the evening.

In retrospect, I now understand the significant risk she undertook as a woman letting a guy she’d just met sleep on her floor. In those days I was in a bubble of male privilege and was oblivious to such safety concerns. Today, as a parent, I’m amazed she offered that help – but still incredibly thankful.

I never did go to that university, and I didn’t meet that kind stranger again, but I’ve never forgotten that incredible gesture of generosity. I hope life has returned her good deed many times over. Our society requires more folks with such compassion.